I’ve been there, and I’ve learned from experience. Finding love is one of the most exhilarating feelings in the world. But what do you do with your sex doll when you find a real girlfriend? Here’s my take on it, from my personal journey.
Communication is key
Firstly, communication is key. If your girlfriend is open-minded, and perhaps a little adventurous, then sharing your hobby with her might not be a big deal. Everyone has their quirks, and if she truly cares about you, she’ll try to understand and maybe even appreciate it.
However, if she discovers your love doll and feels uncomfortable, don’t be quick to discard it! Here’s why:
Today’s Girlfriend Might Be Tomorrow’s Memory
Relationships are unpredictable. You might be deeply in love today and find yourself single in a few months. It’s tough, but it’s true. When my past girlfriends found out and wanted me to get rid of my dolls, I didn’t. Instead, I stored them away. You never know what the future holds. And of course after some time they were the only left to keep me company in bed.
Keep Them Hidden But Accessible
If you do decide to keep your sex dolls, it’s a good idea to store them discreetly. Renting a remote storage unit can be a solution. This keeps them out of sight but within reach if you ever need them.
Stability for Stressful Times
Life is unpredictable. There might be times when your girlfriend or wife may not be in the mood for intimacy for extended periods. In such times, having your sex doll can provide a sense of psychological stability. Just knowing they’re there, available if you need them, can make you feel more grounded and less frustrated. Also it’s a pressure on the girl. If she doesn’t satisfy you, then you will go to your doll. The thought you doing sex without them(even with not living being) drives them crazy.
The crazy girlfriend
Owning a sex doll has thrown a curveball into my relationships. For reasons I hadn’t anticipated, it drives some women crazy, making them feel they’ve lost control or are being replaced. This emotional upheaval results in them overreacting to trivial matters, seeming perpetually unsatisfied, and at times, coercing me into situations I’m not comfortable with. Through all this, it’s crucial for you to stay grounded and not succumb to the pressure. Moreover, it’s essential to remind them that their heightened reactions are primarily because of the sex doll. Do not give her control of the situation! If she is so triggered that will want to brake with you then let her go. Believe me – been there, done that!
You do not want to be in a relationship where woman is in control and have the power over whether you will have sex or not. Better be with the doll, than unhappy and miserable “just to have someone”. Women can be emotionally brutal sometimes. Remove such persons from your life! If they do not respect you, your hobbies and your boundaries then it’s a big no. The right person will appear sooner or latter. Usually it’s in the perfect time when you really needed(even if you didn’t know it). Again I know it from experience… At least for once from a good experience.
In conclusion, it’s essential to strike a balance between respecting your partner’s feelings and staying true to yourself. Everyone has unique ways of coping and finding comfort. If a sex doll offers you solace and keeps you happy, it’s essential to find a way to incorporate it into your life, even if you’re in a relationship. Remember, being honest with yourself and your partner is the foundation of any lasting relationship.